Why am I constantly falling in love with men who are not worthy of me?
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August 4, 2009 • 8:14 pm
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I suspect, like me, you don’t feel you are worthy deep down inside… we need to turn that shit around!
Where have you gone???
Because initially you are attracted, deep down, because you think you can fix them, and when you find out you can’t you realize what a loser they really are? Just a guess, but it seems quite common…
Long time no see, sister.
I think the answer is becuase in society today we expect less and less of ourselves leaving far to great a gulf of repairation and this often leads to dismissal rather than overcoming. Some men like myself seek only a person to whom that can identify with, they can talk with they can express themselves and never fear a critical mindset.
Many men these days are concerned only of themselves intimacy seems to be an outdated concept replaced by fast food and fast cars fats relationships fast orgasm get whats in it for me and to hell with everything else.
In truth seek after a man that wants a partner, someone who he can see will enhance his abilty to overcome, a man who is humnble and patient many of us have had tradgedies of our own and we are sensative to a great many things and can readily empathise.
Men like me can be a challenge becuase we desire real coupling, a real relationship and knowledge of our lady.
We can be moody and thats due to perhaps walls placed by past experiances like yourself, many times wea re the men you overlook.
But in our hearts sex is not sex it is a spiritual an emotional and a physical coupling of two souls, its the ultimate expression of gratitude and love, and for men reading this cool your jets and be patient in it its not a sprint its a waltz, its a mosaic of the human spirit. Love making is just what it should be lovemaking, building on the foundation of your trust your connections and your hopes its being vulnerable and safe at the same time.
Most men just want in your pants, thier biological need to insemenate and procreate is very strong in them, for the rest of us we may be a little more enlightened because of early wounds from the wrong woman, it has allowed me at least to take my time preserve myself for a woman truly worth my love, then when I find that person all these years of waiting for her will be like a damn of water spilling over.
the passion and the love will be freely expressed in gratitude and tenderness, I am glad to say the closest I came to copulation was a brief encounter with felatio at 20.
Hun the right man is out there but like me he is going to be shy, not because he cannot deliver its just that he is deliberately thoughtful and that can hamper his courage, if you find him he will not prejudge your past experiance but will embrace the fact that you already know your body and he can be trained to you alone.
Once you have the right man he would die to make you the queen of his kingdom and to provide you with a nest worthy of your life and hopes, he will not be perfect but none of us are, but what we are taliking about is a spiritual and mental and emotional connection to a person, once those three hmispheres converge the physical is easy to master. I am not talking from expriance per se but I am speaking of the knowledge that I have seen in other couples who are dynamic.
You are worthy of your own patience and in time you will see that man, and he will be yours.
It will happen for you.